Take Care

I'm normally not a public person and have been "socially distant" for years - particularly, since I've retired from years of working long hours and the associated stress. My first months of retirement were spent organizing things that have gotten out of hand due to neglect. Then, I focused on doing creative things - hobbies and talents that I have always wanted to try or improve. Lately, I've had moments of spiritual curiosity and clarity. If anything, I'm not bored. The COVID-19 pandemic has taxed my sense of connection, imagination and resilience.

Months before the "stay at home" order, I began to commit to socializing with my friends; although, my list of friends is very, very short. Having lunches/breakfasts, going to the movies, and visiting my friends was an enjoyable interruption of my day-to-day chores and projects. They are all funny, compassionate and interesting. The mandated Social Distancing has now made me realize how important these connections are. Texting and calling are not a great substitute but we're all managing to keep in touch. I truly do not want to take my friendships for granted.

One of my biggest interests is cooking. I've spent the last three years trying hundreds of recipes, learning about the mechanics of cooking and what works. When the pandemic hit and people starting to panic-shop, I was left trying to figure out what meals I can create with no produce (not even eggplants!), no canned goods, no grains, no eggs, butter or other dairy products and no meats. (On top of that, there was no toilet paper, paper towels or kleenex!) As the panic subsided, the supermarket shelves are more stocked. Yet, I'm perplexed about how some foods (except vegetables) are really coveted and are difficult to get. I've been visiting the Farmers Market, travelling from market to market, using the restaurants that are selling foodstuff and online shopping to find the basics. Sometimes, I'm lucky to find something different (such as watermelon radishes) to inspire me.

I've always enjoyed Netflix and Amazon Prime and, now, more than ever, they are important boredom chasers. Yes, occasionally, I watch some real stinkers but, more often than not, I am entertained and impressed by creative people who make movies, shows and documentaries for a living. When I simply cannot watch anymore, I turn on the music to a classical or jazz station and read a book. I have many that I've started so I get to restart and finally finish them.

Finally, it's my family that sustains me. My husband is a rock. We spend each morning in gratitude and then discuss a spiritual concept or lesson. We are partners in action and mind. My sister and her daughter and son-in-law round out my "comfort place". I enjoy and respect their ideas and comments. When I leave any conversations with them, I am whole.

This is what I wish of you - to have friends and family that care for you and give you sustenance, to have hobbies and interests that enrich you, to have activities that entertain you, and, most importantly, to have good health and happiness.

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